Central Indiana Homeschool

The Old Schoolhouse Magazine has an interview this month with Douglas Gresham. I am puttin an excerpt of one of his answers here for your consideration and comment, as it is an extremely interesting perspective.

TOS: What is your opinion of homeschooling and how did you reach that opinion?

Gresham: Homeschooling and why I advocate it is not a matter of whether the schools are good or bad, though obviously I would rather children went to good schools than bad ones, if go to school they must. It is that, as someone who has been trained and worsk in the field of post-childhood abuse trauma, and has devoted considerable thought to the matter, I have formed the opinion that the entire concept of school is flawed. In fact, it is a terrible mistake.

Look what we do: we observer what God has designed, a pair of parents, one of each sex, and two pairs of grandparents, often with a few aunts and uncles thrown in. In fact, a Family. This is the unit designed by God Himself for the specific purpose and ministry of raising each new generation.

Then what do we do? We take the child and remove him from this carefullly designed support group of parents and close family members, all of whom share a genetic bond with the child, and plunge him into a mass group of his peers, all of whom are as ignorant and as demanding as he is, with one adult stranger supervising. In terms of the psycho-emotional development of the child, this is complete madness.

A child is best nurtured by having the one-on-one attention from each of the two parents for a specfici period of time each day. Ideally, a child should be homeschooled by both parents sharing the task equally, though I do realize that this is not always possible. Bear in mind that I am not referring to idiotic parents, criminal parents, drug addicted parents, or self-indulgent, self-obsessed parents, nor to anyone else who should never be graced (in my view, not God’s, of course) with progeny in the first place. I am referring to normal, well-adjusted, good parents. And with our modern habits of sending children away from their home and families for the better part of every day, these [well-adjusted parents] are becoming more and more scarce as the vast majority of people are damaged or scarred emotionally and intellectually themselves by being exiled from their hom and parents and placed in the hands of strangers at a young age.

It is a transgenerational progression exacerbated by the fact that those who are damaged very often are not even aware of it. If I had known back then what I know now, my children would never have gone to school until they were at least 18 years old. [snip] As far as I’m concerned, schools are for fish.

Amy has some further thoughts on this.